Gratitude for a listening ear

Some times in life it can be hard to see the wood for the trees. A way forward can seem unfthomable and you can feel like a boat that has losts its rudder. I am speaking from experience here, but just talking to friends and family can be a real tonic. Sorry if that phrase sounds pompous and old fashioned but it does explain what I am trying to say. When life is so full of challenges talking can help, but so can really and truly listening to others. By listening you can find that you are not alone. When you listen to others you can be surprised that those who, on the surface, appear to have life sussed; actually have similar difficulties. Possibly just from a different prospective. It is strange how reassuring this fact can be. So just as when someone really listens to you can help, being prepared to properly listen to someone else can make you feel better about yourself too. In sales training I have often been told that God gave you two ears and one mouth and you should use them in that proportion. Well this applies to life to. When someone listens and helps you, a simple way of showing them gratitude is by listening properly to them. This simple act can break down the most amazing barriers. A favourite film of mine is The Dead Poets Society. As well as the famous phrase Carpe Diem, Mr Keating also encourages his students to look at things differently and suck the marrow out of life. Unfortunately one of the central character feels he can't go on, because his parents refuse to listen to him. Thank fully these days parents listen to their children a lot more, and interact properly with them. This enables them to truly guide and help their kids. Some people and parents, are better listeners than others, but if you want advice and a listening ear in times of difficulty. then you need to be prepared to properly listen to others at any time. Then when people realise that you are a good listener they will warm to you, and can give you great advice when you need it.