Mess ups can help you improve

Sometimes in life you feel you have made a mess of something, but just as every cloud has a silver lining; you can create triumph out of disaster. You have to believe that there is a silver lining somewhere for you. It can just take abit of finding. The other night I was beating myself up over something that as the night went on, grew in my mind to be bigger and bigger. In the end after a conversation with a colleague it turn out I was worrying about nothing. Given how soul destroying the last few years have been for me. I am having to rebuild my self belief, and I tend to worry a lot about thngs I perceive to have messed up. I need to think more positively about myself. I need to find my own path to positive thinking.

When I get over the worry that I have had, I feel better. So whilst the silver lining may take a bit of finding. It is there if you really look for it. It is too easy to just accept the bad circumstances you find yourself in, and not bother to look for the silver lining. So next time you think you have messed something up look at it as; okay this is a messy situation what can I learn from it to improve my lot and that of those around me. This will help you find that elusive silver lining.